It is all in her head

What was in her head? Anxieties, fears, body symptoms, dreams, wishes or other inescapable thoughts?  The noisy stream of consciousness that is in my head is more real than than real, truer than any sensory grounded input from the external world.  It is all in my head, everything is in my head, and whatever is in my head goes everywhere with me. Of course it is in my head where else would anything be?

My deeply held beliefs and values are all in my head. My family history is all in my head, no-one else carries the same version of events that I do. Even my intuitive gut reactions are really all in my head. The world I live in is all in my head, perceptions, thoughts, and feelings.

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Grief is not something that's just in your head. It can not be discounted.